Wednesday, May 5, 2010

BABY JOY AND DADDY *update*

~Sedihnya rasa hati, Baby Joy birthday 17 Mei nanti, she'll turn 2 and guess what? Her beloved daddy won't be there blowing candles with her like yesteryear~

Perangai makin naughty, kobek-kobek and throwing tantrum and what nots I just can't seem to handle. Nak aku spank-kan nanti masa nangis dia psycho aku balik, calling her 'daddy', when she knows he isn't there. Tak ke sebak aku, rasa bersalah lagi ada. These two 'monsters' are so close I can't get my way with any one. If I 'pap' the daddy the baby will 'pap' me. If I scold the baby the daddy will animatedly 'pap' me to cheer baby up.

Now that the daddy is away I'm left with this guilty feeling whenever I have to discipline her 'a bit'. And I know Mr Vai misses Baby Joy more than he misses me. But when she's sleeping she looks so angelic and all my day's problem seems so distant. All the wonders of being a temporary single mum.

~ 6 months and napping with daddy~
*note the same sleeping posture*

~dear...I miss you!




18 comments:

mr_abs said...

o tedah. haha. sedeh indah kmk baca. tp kiut jak. boh manas eh melayan. sbr jak byk2

義珊 said...

此處是值得一探究竟的好部落格!! .........................................

kaChaNG_dEwa said...

Aloo..sabar deng.mun nya kobek-kobek bia jak.kobek jak balit.huhuu..boh manas2.lalalaa~

Uncle Lee said...

Hi Joynstar, thats what being a mother is all about. The hiccups, the worries, the to do or not to do and whatever.....
But have fun, kids grow up fast and soon you'll be hearing her telling you, "when I grow up I want to be beautiful like you, mummy".

And that will make rainbows to appear and the moon to rise half hour early, ha ha.
Have fun and keep a song in your heart, lee.

Beautiful Stranger said...

bergenang aek mata..wp kmk blm jd mom [maybe kmk dlm mode missing someone juak]..
pasal 'pap' ya..sweet eh! can't wait my life turn happily ever after kedak ya..

fLoRanCe said...

heee...so sweet...strong tide between dad n her baby...
anyway mek tok kurang sbr juak..hehehe..
p dh jd mom kedak ktk lak mesti mok sbr hoo..

Faizal n Fashitah said...

Olertedah...jaik ati nenga. Camya la mek masa katok2 sorang dirik rah Dubai dolok.. mala jak tekenang wifey mek adehh..

joynstar said...

mr_abs
aok, kiut, pi asa mok ngigit jak selalu, tapi daddy dah warning awal boh mok gigit anak jak keja. how?

apek
lu kong wo boyong, hoho

kachang...
kobek2, muka mok nangis kak ya keluar kobek, ngesak hati jak.

Uncle Lee
she better say that someday. I honestly think she being in my belly was wayyyy easier than out and about.

Hi beautiful
isk, hopefully la ever after oh...baruk gik hidup tok. tapi bab nge-pap ya nang bebenar nya membela bapak nya. giney gaya yo!

Flo-long time no C
mok sabar ya yang mencabar deng. berik gik anak gaok tahap reject nursery. herrrrsss...

Bang Odiyo
ya kan? mun kita spesis berkaseh sayang tok nang sik betah jauh lamak2. isk...haish...

Ivy Metaga said...

cutenya cara tido...hurmm..oh tedah....kerinduan lah tok, sik apa..kelak kmk tolong hembuskan api candle jak hehe..

Faizal n Fashitah said...

Aiee cute baby kitak hoh. Duhal gik kecik juak nya duhal hehe. Baby mek sik lamak gik tok ehek XD

joynstar said...

ivy
so close sidak macam kembar dah perangai. tido bertimpak-timpak jak kaki tangan sidak 2.

Bang Odio
ya masa gik shmall, next week 2 tahun dah.

mr_abs said...

bok perasan. posture tido nye duak sama hooooo!! kiuttt!

joynstar said...

ha...kan? nya duak tok mun bergoleng pun sama2, nasib la mun kamek nap sebelah sidak 2. makan timpak

Uncle Lee said...

Hi Joynstar, happy mother's day to you. Keep well, don't forget the chilli merah lipstick, Lee.

joynstar said...

Thanks Uncle Lee, same to you too, enjoy it with your wife.

子凌50529nealsickles said...

廢話不多,祝你順心~^^........................................

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

yahhhhhh... sama stail!! hahahha kiut ada jak.. i laughed looking at the pic.. bapak borek, anak rintik.. :P

part rindu lah paling sengsara o.. i feel you, maybe slightly different since you've kids but i believe, perasaan ya tetap sama kan?.. just, perasaan sedih mungkin lebih sebab ngenang the kids bercarik for the papa.. :(

nang one tough mama lah kitak.. gorgeous pun all the way, sik tinggal.. kiss baby joy for me!

joynstar said...

Ahmoi
hehe...cute and gigit-able are both. memang identical in manners but then again girls tend to follow father's lead. I'm not so a tough cookie dear, cuma gojes ajak sikpat buang so I hold on. Kissed Joy many2 dah. Muaaahhhhahahaha...